we think we have chosen our peers. In reality a few years' difference in the dates of our births, a few more miles between certain houses, the choice of one university instead of another...the accident of a topic being raised or not raised at a first meeting--any of these chances might have kept us apart.
But,
for a Christian,
there are,
strictly speaking
no chances.
A secret master of ceremonies has been at work.
Christ, who said to the disciples,
"Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you,"
can truly say to every group of Christian friends, "Ye have not chosen one another but I have chosen you for one another." The friendship is not a reward for our discriminating and good taste in finding one another out.
It is the instrument by which God reveals to each of us the beauties of others.”
― C.S. Lewis, The Four Loves
I would NOT have survived my first year on Guam without Sam |
These two ladies started my running obsession; little did they know...... |
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My first EVER race - the Perimeter Relay - April 2011 |
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Was SO nervous about my baby's first school change - he had been in the same school for kinder-2nd God blessed him with THE BEST teacher EV-AH! |
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What kind I say about the BEST Boonie Stomper on this island.. Thanks for showing me parts of Guam that I would have never seen without your friendship Barbara! YOU ROCK!!! |
Thank you God for the amazing women that you placed on Guam while I was here.
Thank you for their spirits,
their strength,
their beauty,
their laughter.
I also thank you for their weaknesses,
their tears,
their honesty
It makes them REAL

Our amazing wardroom....
We spent many great times with these people
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OH MY GOODNESS...this lady so much more than just the "Peacher's Wife" Love you Terri! |
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and Vathleen and Sue.... |
I don't even know where to start to explain my running buddies....
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this girl.... never a dull moment :) |
Perimeter Relay team 2012 - my one year anniversary of running! |
This is Jaime I think the most amazing athlete I have ever known personally She continued to push me to get better and go ALL OUT to be one TOUGH COOKIE. love you jams! |
Anita - knew her hubby as a single guy - and so loved spending so many holidays and birthdays with this, now, family of 4 |
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Jingle Bell 5k -December 2012 Seriously, these are STRONG, AMAZING, ENCOURAGING women... I have enjoyed every 5K, 10K - training run - all of it with these ladies |
Guam International 1/2 |
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Harvest 5K |
Amanda - te amo mucho mi amiga you always encourage me! THANK YOU! |
THE BEAST - 60 mile relay |
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my smoking hot mother of 5 friend... Jane Jones She is so talented in so many ways she swims, she runs, she sings, she home schools.... |
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The chic moved into my friend Anita's house - I didn't want to like her, but she too amazing not to love! And good grief - she's fast! |
My praise team buddies at Bayview Church Love these ladies too! |
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My bestie - even in my dreams I can't keep up with her! |
Don't come to Guam as military and just hang out with the military - cause you will miss out on some great friends LOVE ME SOME LOCAL GALS!!! thanks for sharing your island with me friends!!! |
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Sole Sisters - Cross Island 10 miler - January 2013 |
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Lockwood Crossfit - May 2013 |